Grandfamilies: An end-of-course discussion
In this New York Times article (gifted to you), the writer Frances Dodds tells us the tragic story of how her sister’s four children came to live with the writer’s parents, the children’s grandparents (Dodds, 2025). Grandparents being responsible for raising their grandchildren is not an unusual occurrence. The U.S. Census Bureau estimates that in 2023, 2.1 million grandparents were doing so. With very little effort, I can think of many “grandfamilies” I currently know or have known, including neighbors, my extended family, colleagues, and students. In my teaching and writing, I try to honor such families by referring to caregivers rather than parents.
When Dodds’ sister got swept up in substance abuse, Dodds’ parents stepped in to care for the children. At first it was temporary, while everyone hoped that the children’s mother would get clean and stay clean. When it became clear that that was not going to happen, at least not any time soon, the children’s grandparents went to court to make their custody official. “The older two children were 8 and 7. The twins were 6. They had been living with my parents for nearly five years” (Dodds, 2025). This makes it sound much easier than it was.
As an end-of-term small group discussion for Intro Psych, invite your students to read the article. Provide students with these instructions:
This article reflects several of the topics we’ve covered in this course. Working together, identify at least five chapters that are represented in the article. For each of those five chapters, describe how content in the article connects with one or more concepts in the chapter. Please be specific.
Here are some examples that I found. And if you’d rather not have a discussion, the examples work for your lectures.
- Research methods: survey data
- Consciousness: fentanyl
- Development: attachment, social clock
- Learning: operant conditioning
- Emotions and motivation: emotion regulation, stress
- Social psychology: family roles, intimate partner violence, cognitive dissonance
When discussion has abated, invite each group to share one example that they found. How many chapters were your students able to cover?
Reference
Dodds, F. (2025, May 18). My parents expected to be retired. Instead, they are raising my sister’s kids. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/18/magazine/grandparents-families-children-kids.html