What wisdom do the elders of our communities have to share? A class discussion and authentic assessment
This is the sixth in a series of posts based on Becca Levy’s book Breaking the age code: How your beliefs about aging determine how long & well you live.
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Near the end of chapter five, which is on mental health, Becca Levy introduces us to Zimbabwe’s Friendship Bench. The idea came from Dixon Chibanda, one of only 12 psychiatrists in Zimbabwe, a country of 14 million people. After realizing that grandmothers were a reliable yet untapped resource, “He came up with the idea of teaching grandmothers to offer villagers talk therapy on a park bench in a safe and discreet outdoor place in the community” (Levy, 2022). In Zimbabwe, older adults are greatly respected. People will listen to them. The Friendship Bench grandmothers receive eight days of training by the “clinical team in the evidence based Problem Solving Therapy approach” (FAQ, n.d.). (Read more about problem solving therapy.) The Zimbabwe Friendship Bench has been so successful with its 800 volunteer grandmothers that the model is now used in Malawi, Botswana, and Zanzibar (Levy, 2022).
Questions for classroom discussion
- Have you ever gone to a grandparent or other similarly-aged older adult for advice? Why or why not?
- Would a Friendship Bench staffed by grandmothers and grandfathers be successful in your community? Why or why not?
- Would a Friendship Bench staffed by grandmothers and grandfathers be successful on our campus? Why or why not?
- If there were a Friendship Bench program on campus, identify the three best locations for the benches. Explain.
As I sat down at my computer to write this post, The Washington Post dropped this article into my inbox. The article describes the Misericordia Place Life Advice Line.
You can call 204-788-8060 and hear prerecorded messages from the residents on various topics. Press 1 for Carl’s advice on following your dreams. Press 3 for Randy’s wisdom on how to grow in new ways (he joined some clubs and got a girlfriend). Press 4 for guidance on surviving Winnipeg winters (if possible, don’t be there). Press 0 for Cheryl’s tips on being true to yourself (“it’s you who has to live with yourself later”) (Penman, 2025).
“Misericordia Place is a 100-bed warm and inviting personal care home, providing quality care 24 hours a day” (“Misericordia Place,” 2025).
For those of you wanting to build more authentic assessments into your courses, here’s an idea. Ask students to work in small groups to identify questions students might like some advice on. Invite students to find people over, say, 80 years old to answer the questions. For example, for relationship questions, the student could visit a local senior center and invite someone who has been married for over 50 years to share their advice. Your institution’s center for alumni might have people on its contact list who would be willing to answer career questions.
The answers are recorded, either video or audio. Be sure your students get permission from each interviewee to use their recording. If your institution does not have such a release form, here is a sample video release document.
Students, next, will edit their recordings to be no more than, say, three minutes long. Review each recording to make sure the content is appropriate and that the interviewee has not revealed anything overly private.
Once the recordings have been approved by you, the groups will need to post their recordings to a publicly accessible location, such as a private YouTube channel, Dropbox, or Google Drive. Next, students will need to create a QR code for each recording. (If students use short.io to create the QR codes, they can track the number of views.) For each recording, students will design a poster for each question that includes, at a minimum, the question or topic and the QR code. Work with your institution to find out how to get your student groups permission to put up the posters.
Could such a project reduce ageist beliefs amongst your students? Or amongst those who watch the recordings? Those are empirical questions worthy of publication.
References
FAQ. (n.d.). Friendship Bench. Retrieved September 14, 2025, from https://www.friendshipbenchzimbabwe.org/services-faq
Levy, B. (2022). Breaking the age code: How your beliefs about aging determine how long & well you live (First edition). William Morrow, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.
Misericordia Place. (2025). Misericordia Health Centre. https://misericordia.mb.ca/programs/long-term-care/misericordia-place/
Penman, M. (2025, September 12). Need advice? Call these older folks for tips on love, dating and moose hunting. The Washington Post. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2025/09/12/seniors-hotline-advice-misericordia-place-canada/